Diversity is part of what makes the world a vibrant and beautiful place. As children enter school, play sports, participate in activities and explore their community, they’ll get to know peers with various abilities, cultures, languages and backgrounds.
It’s completely natural for children, particularly very young ones, to notice both similarities and differences and to express curiosity. Here are some simple ways to model acceptance of diversity and frame it as a strength.
Lead by example
Remember that kids are always listening and watching. Show kindness in your daily life and be aware of how you talk to others; even though it may seem like harmless fun, making comments or jokes that encourage stereotypes can undo what children have been taught about respecting others.
Have an open conversation about diversity
Comments such as ”we don’t see color” or “we’re all the same on the inside” don’t acknowledge the reality that differences exist. Part of what makes the community fabric so rich is that individuals come from unique backgrounds, ethnicities and cultures. Discuss the importance of accepting people as they are and answer your child’s questions honestly.
Correct insensitive comments
Sometimes children will not realize that what they’re saying is offensive. Turn it into a teaching moment. Correct them and explain that talking about someone is hurtful because they are different. Remind the child to treat others how they want to be treated.
Provide exposure to different racial and cultural backgrounds
Schedule activities or play dates with children from diverse backgrounds. You can also explore another culture’s food, read books together or watch diversity-themed movies.
Celebrate your heritage
Children can readily learn acceptance by embracing their own culture. Explore your family tree, participate in cultural or religious traditions and visit the extended family to strengthen your child’s sense of identity. Increasing their self-esteem about what makes them unique means they will be more likely to appreciate and respect others.
